Wednesday, September 26, 2007
friends.
my best friend once told me something that i still hold very close to my heart. he said, "a true friend is someone who is not only able to make positive comments of your actions, but also someone who can criticise you for the mistakes you have made". i hold this as true and useful, because that has really been the mark of the friends who stood by me all this while...
i guess some of you think that i'm really evil to have expressed a particular thought this afternoon. perhaps i'm not as loving/tolerant as you guys and, having been in a uniformed group for so many years, i know that a person can only be transformed through hard work (and sometimes, excruciating pain). imo, the school of hard knocks teaches a person much more than what each of us can do for him/her. it's better than us covering his/her a** all the time and expecting him/her to feel sufficiently guilty and remorseful (thereby encouraging them to convert to the lit side)... i mean, having done so much for so long, you guys still believe in the "education of love"(俗称‘爱的教育’)
sometimes, we have to be cruel to be good. i know you guys disagree (being the nice, ethical people you all are), but i'm unapologetic...
宁可我负天下人,不可天下人负我。
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